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“Thank you for my surprise gifts” … An Easy Law of Attraction Technique

Posted on November 9, 2015 by Jacki in Jacki's Blog

gift box photoI love the Power of Deliberate Intention and one of my really cool Law of Attraction techniques that I use often is to intend for abundance in the form of surprise gifts dropping into my life. 

It’s fun, why don’t you begin to do it too?

My children were given an unexpected Friday off from school due to potential flooding from a Tropical Cyclone and this resulted in the whole family having a wonderfully rainy, 3 day weekend to spend together inside our beautiful home.

We chose to watch movies, relax and just BE. Our pantry was stocked with food, we were warm and dry, our rainwater tanks were full to over-flowing and we could spend all day in our pyjamas if that’s what our hearts desired.

I always remind my children to look for and appreciate their blessings in life and the unexpected nature of this 3 day weekend was a surprise gift – the children enjoyed celebrating freedom from their school timetable and we used our days together to connect, recharge and enjoy each other’s company.

YOU can invite and create unexpected blessings like this IN YOUR OWN LIFE by connecting with your heart in a joyful way and repeating:

“Thank you for my surprise gifts.”

How to Attract Surprise Gifts in 3 Easy Steps:

  • Connect with a feeling of gratitude in your heart.
  • Then bring an excited smile of happiness to your face in joyful anticipation and expectation of being given something delightful – we all enjoy receiving presents, right?
  • Then think, feel and say: “Thank you for my surprise gifts” while continuing to Feel Good.

Then when something unexpected shows up, your physical and energetic bodies automatically connect with feelings of being abundantly blessed and you benefit from a further rise in your vibration.

Recently I was compiling a list of surprise gifts I’ve received in the past as a result of affirming the above deliberate intention statement to include them in a future blog post.

JackiJanetzkiLovingTheLawOfAttractionThankYouForMySurpriseGiftsThat same week our family hosted a Korean Exchange Student. What I found amazing is that after writing up the list of ‘surprise gift’ experiences I’ve received in the past and then recommencing affirming: “Thank you for my surprise gifts” for a few days, I was extremely surprised and grateful when our Korean Exchange student arrived bearing an amazing abundance of gifts for our family. On the first evening after her arrival I was pleasantly surprised when she presented me with the handmade Korean necklace and then our Korean visitor continued to bring out ONE GIFT EVERY DAY for the next 7 days for the entire duration of her stay!

This stuff works! Try it!

And this is why I Love The Law of Attraction.

“Thank you for my surprise gifts!”


Jacki is the founder of Loving The Law Of Attraction and has been published alongside world class leaders such as Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy, Arielle Ford and Sandy Forster in the Inspirational Book – The Path To Success.

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How I Used Gratitude To Solve The Mystery Of My Daughter’s Lost Dance Shoe

Posted on October 9, 2015 by Jacki in Jacki's Blog
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Photo by Kekka

My eldest daughter dressed up in her Can Can dance costume for the book character parade at primary school and instead of wearing and damaging her soft, black leather dancing shoes while walking on the concrete footpath into school, she packed them in a carry bag to change into once she arrived.

But …

When she got to her classroom, one shoe was missing!

After retracing her steps and searching high and low during the next few days, Kiana still couldn’t find her missing black jazz shoe at home or at school.

Five days later she went to dance class wearing a spare pair of tan coloured jazz shoes. The next day she was due to have a stricter dance teacher and didn’t want to wear the wrong coloured shoes and get into trouble, so she wrote herself a note with the clear and definite intention of “FIND BLACK JAZZ SHOE” written on it.

She lovingly decorated the note that represented her heart’s desire in a HIGH VIBRATIONAL WAY with pretty flowers and colourful, swirly patterns on it, then placed it in her lunch box to remind her to check the lost property again at school.

As we prepared to leave home to drive to school, I had another look around our house but still couldn’t find the missing black jazz shoe.

And then I ‘got’ it …

Our family had been focusing on the confusion and mystery of the reality we were living by thinking and saying: “My dance shoe is lost, I can’t find the missing black jazz shoe, I don’t know where it is, it’s a mystery etc…” for 6 days now.

Of course our human senses (logical mind and physical body) hadn’t been able to locate the shoe because we were focusing on (thinking and speaking) the words: “confused, lost, missing and mystery” and so we were staying stuck in and continuing to live the reality of “confused, lost, missing and mystery.”

It was time to switch things around …

I knew that I had to take energetic action in the direction of my desire to find the missing black jazz shoe … I HAD TO PUT IN A CALL FOR UNIVERSAL ASSISTANCE!

And so I did.

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Photo by bunnicula

I gave THANKS IN ADVANCE (acting “as if” we had found the jazz shoe, despite the reality that it was still missing) by thinking and then declaring the following intention out loud in a joyful, sing-song voice:

“THANK YOU FOR HELPING US FIND KIANA’S JAZZ SHOE!”

Then I surrendered my request to the universe.

I let my intention flow out from me. I let my deliberate creation declaration leave my body with the full faith and trust that my desire would be heard, answered and delivered.

After dropping my children at school, I didn’t think about the jazz shoe again for the rest of the day.

I went to pick my daughters up from school that afternoon and as I pulled off the road to park, I noticed an empty beer bottle lying in the gravel on the edge of the road. I slowed down to carefully maneuver my car around this piece of rubbish and as I did so, I noticed a black jazz shoe laying on the side of the road less than a metre away from me. I knew in my heart that this shoe would be ours but walked up to it to check for my daughter’s name inside and sure enough, that was it!

I HAD FOUND THE MISSING JAZZ SHOE!

We had parked in the same place on the busy morning of the book character parade and as I don’t usually park there in the mornings, I’d overlooked that detail. The black jazz shoe must have fallen out of Kiana’s bag 6 days earlier when she got out of the car.

The shoe had been sitting there, waiting for us the whole time, we just hadn’t known where to look!

Yet in the end, I didn’t need to logically know where to look because the missing black jazz shoe FOUND ME!

I use this story to remind my Law of Attraction students that your dreams are out there, waiting for you NOW.

You just need to be open and receptive enough to allow them to find you!         


Jacki is the founder of Loving The Law Of Attraction and has been published alongside world class leaders such as Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy, Arielle Ford and Sandy Forster in the Inspirational Book – The Path To Success.

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Have you ever asked The Universe for something and never received it?

Posted on September 25, 2015 by Jacki in Jacki's Blog No Comments

no photoHave you ever asked The Universe for something and never received it?

If so, did you ever stop to think that The Universe actually did send you what you wanted but it was your actions that stopped it from being delivered?

The following short story expands on this concept further:

A 40 year old woman was focusing on attracting a $100 note and two $50 notes into her life. She felt the joy associated with visualising this extra cash and almost immediately, her employer telephoned and offered her an extra 10 hours work. Mrs 40 Year Old gets paid $20 an hour and had she accepted this offer, she would have instantly manifested her $200 abundance intention.

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Photo by Cimexus

Now, this lady likes to think of herself as a person who’s evolving nicely on her journey through life and yet she was oblivious to the fact that ‘The Universal Genie’ had masterminded a Grand Plan to deliver her $200 desire.

At first, Mrs 40 Year Old didn’t connect the offer of 10 hours work with the image of the money she was visualising. After all, she wasn’t concentrating on doing extra work, she was thinking about receiving more money. To her credit, she had never actually stopped to think about how she was going to attract the money (surrendering the HOW to The Universe) it’s just that the thought of achieving it through her traditional job had never crossed her mind.

At this point, she witnessed her thought patterns undergoing a disturbing change – the reasoning part of her brain was taking over and Mrs 40 Year Old found herself distracted with the following negative mind chatter:

“I had to get up at 4am to work a 5 hour shift this morning and if I do another 10 hours today, that would make 15 hours in one day and that’s a really long day and I have to get up at 4am tomorrow morning to do another 4 hour shift and I don’t know if I’d be able to cope with lack of sleep when I need to work ALL those extra hours! What’s more, it’s Friday night and my husband has organized a baby sitter and arranged to take me on a date tonight and I’d have to cancel dinner with him if I took on the extra work and another thing … I’ve never worked alone in the shop until 10.30pm and that prospect feels daunting, so accepting the extra 10 hours work is not something I want to do…”

Have you ever experienced this type of exhausting ‘thought diarrhoea?’ Maybe you’ve asked for more abundance, only to turn down an offer that would have attracted more income to you.

It’s relatively easy to master Step 1: Placing Your Order with The Universe.

It’s absolutely vital to master Step 2: Keeping an expansive mind-set to ensure you recognise your desires as they are delivered. 

Keep a watchful eye on yourself and make sure you are not saying “NO” when the Universe says “Here you go.”

Empowering Affirmation: “I always stay open and receptive to receiving my requests.”

How did the story end?

Mrs 40 Year Old accepted 5 of the extra 10 hours work offered, earned an extra $100 and then went out and enjoyed a beautiful meal with her husband.

She emerged from this experience with gratitude … receiving the valuable gift of another real life example demonstrating that she is an instantaneous, magical manifestor capable of creating whatever reality she chooses to focus upon.


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Stop Saying NO and Go With The Flow … Just say YES to your Desires!

Posted on September 18, 2015 by Jacki in Jacki's Blog No Comments
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Photo by ThoseGuys119

I hold such a genuine, motherly concern that my youngest daughter gets enough sleep each night that a few years ago I continued saying “NO” to her request of wanting to take a one hour bus ride to school at 7.50am and then an hour home again in the afternoon when school didn’t start until 9.20am and we live a mere 5 minutes drive away by car.

Adding an extra 2 hours travel time to a primary school child’s day just didn’t make logical sense to the adult doing the thinking in my head.

My justification was: If she caught the bus I would need to wake her at 6.45am before her body is ready to wake up naturally (usually 8am) and she’s going to have to do that for the next 6 years anyway when travelling to high school, so it didn’t seem practical for me to facilitate her starting this routine a year early throughout her last year of primary school.

My daughter on the other hand, wanted to socialize with friends on the school bus and didn’t care about logistics and time frames. Her focus was on the fun of friends, not the practicalities surrounding the amount of time a bus ride would take out of her life.

What’s interesting to note as I look back now, is that at the same time my daughter was requesting the school bus ride, I was asking the Universe for more time alone at home to write!

It just didn’t compute within my brain that the Universe was actually delivering my request for more time of my own via my daughter’s desire to take the bus: An activity which would remove her from home an hour earlier in the mornings and have her arrive home an hour later in the afternoons.

The delivery of your request can come disguised within a hidden package, you just need to be open-minded enough to see it.

I hadn’t stopped to flip my thinking around and consider the benefits of the school bus ride because …

I was too intent on focusing on the down side that I just couldn’t see the up side.

I held so much resistance that I was oblivious to the gift and the blessing in her request.

I hadn’t done the math:

If my daughter was on the school bus, I’d have an extra hour to myself every morning and another hour every afternoon x 5 days a week = 10 extra hours to write!

There were 10 extra hours just sitting there, waiting and wanting to be delivered to me and I was SAYING NO to what I’d been asking for!

I’d been SAYING NO to what I’d been asking for!

Some months after her initial request, I needed to investigate and organize a bus ride to school for my daughter on a day when I had an early appointment and wouldn’t be able to take her to school at our usual, later time. Taking this action is when it finally dawned on me and I realized:

It’s a win/win situation …

It’s convenient for me to send her on the bus and her heart wants to do it!

The primary school bus leaves in the mornings and arrives back home in the afternoons around the same time as her sister does on the high school bus and now that both of my daughter’s take the bus, I have more time to myself to write!clock red photo

“Thank You for more time to myself.”

Is there something you’ve been asking for that your actions haven’t been allowing into your life?

It’s time to stop the resistance, and JUST SAY YES to your DESIRES!


Jacki is the founder of Loving The Law Of Attraction and has been published alongside world class leaders such as Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy, Arielle Ford and Sandy Forster in the Inspirational Book – The Path To Success.

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Wayne Dyer said to me … “Let’s take a Selfie, I love Selfies!”

Posted on August 31, 2015 by Jacki in Jacki's Blog No Comments

Jacki Janetzki with Wayne DyerHow I manifested a photograph opportunity with Dr. Wayne Dyer and created a special memory that my heart will treasure forever.

This photo of Dr Wayne Dyer and myself was taken in June 2015 in Maui, Hawaii and represents exhilaration, joy and love.

Let me tell you how it came about …

I’m a co-author with Dr Wayne Dyer in the book ‘The Path to Success’ and had travelled to Maui, Hawaii to attend the Hay House Writer’s Workshop which he was presenting with Reid Tracy and Doreen Virtue.

During Days 1 and 2 of the Writer’s Workshop I hadn’t had a chance to meet with Wayne for a photograph because he was such a popular and wise man, everyone was clambering for his attention. At the lunch break on Day 3, I went out and bought a take away salad to eat inside the venue as I wanted to be first in line when Wayne held his meet and greet at 1.30pm.

I was sitting enjoying my lunch when I was joined by a lovely lady who I ‘clicked’ with immediately and we became so engaged in an enjoyable conversation about health and nutrition that I forgot to go and line up for Wayne. Half an hour later I looked up and the line of people was more than 30 metres long. It was so long that it extended out the doors of the conference room!

I quickly excused myself from my conversation explaining that I had to go and get my photograph taken with Wayne Dyer.

As I made my way to the back of the line my logical mind knew there was no way Wayne Dyer was going to be able to make his way through all these people in the 30 minutes we had left before the afternoon session resumed. Despite the “reality” of my situation (which didn’t look promising at all) I kept my faith and belief intact and took my place at the end of the line, with my intention of having a photograph with Wayne Dyer clearly defined and sitting firmly where it belonged – at the forefront of my mind.

Despite the disheartening “reality” of my situation, I kept my faith and belief intact and my intention clearly defined at the forefront of my mind.

One of the fellow Writer’s Workshop attendees came up and asked what we were all lining up for. We explained that we were waiting in line to get our photo taken with Wayne Dyer. A look of confusion crossed her face as she said, “Wayne’s not in there, he’s out in the lobby, near the elevators.” It’s as if that messenger was sent to speak directly to me because no-one else ‘got’ her message except me. That was my cue and I seized the chance … and I was the only person who left the long line and made my way to the elevators.

When I arrived at the lobby Wayne was nowhere in sight but I decided to wait there anyway as I knew he would have to come past me to re-enter the conference room. I didn’t have to wait long, a few minutes later Wayne rounded the corner and I introduced myself and asked if we could have a photograph taken together.

As I was looking around for someone to take our picture, Wayne Dyer said: “Let’s take a selfie, I love selfie’s!” 

And that’s what we did …

My face shows the pure joy I felt when Wayne took my camera from me and snuggled in close to take this fabulous selfie – a picture that displays his face full of love and mine thrilled that we were experiencing this moment together.

Wayne Dyer, you were an extraordinary man.

Thank you for sharing so much wisdom during your time on Earth.

Thank you for being so gracious and generous, for giving time to your adoring audience and taking time out for your fans.

Thank you for leaving the world a better place for the time you spent in it.

You hold a special place in my heart and I will treasure our photograph forever.


Jacki is the founder of Loving The Law Of Attraction and has been published alongside world class leaders such as Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy, Arielle Ford and Sandy Forster in the Inspirational Book – The Path To Success.

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Thank you for the Honesty of Others

Posted on August 31, 2015 by Jacki in Jacki's Blog No Comments

After a prolonged mix-up with our reservation when trying to check into a 5 star hotel,  eventually we loaded ourselves into the lift, only to find out that our digital room keys hadn’t been activated and the lift wouldn’t take us up to the 28th Floor.

We unloaded 4 people and their luggage back out of the lift and I took a seat in reception while my husband sorted the problem out. After being told the hotel’s computer system had gone down and that staff were unable to get our room keys to work, security let us into the lift and escorted us up to our room.

A few minutes later, while I was unpacking, I couldn’t find my handbag. I came to the conclusion that I must have left it in the lobby as I remember hanging it on the back of a chair while I sat and waited for the room key situation to get sorted out. My husband and I quickly made our way down the 28 floors in the hope my handbag was still there, hanging on the chair …

It wasn’t.

I didn’t freak out, I just calmly walked to reception to ask if my handbag had been handed in and it had … it was sitting behind the reception desk, safe and sound, waiting for me.

Phew!

What a relief!

And “Thank you for the Honesty of Others.”

Take a few moments now and look within to see if you have any personal beliefs surrounding untrustworthiness and dishonesty that don’t serve you and that you’re willing to let go of.

If anything comes up such as “People are Untrustworthy, You can’t Trust Others, People are Dishonest, Someone has Stolen From Me, People might Steal my Ideas … etc,  choose to Raise your Vibration and replace them with the more empowering thoughts of:

“I’m looking forward to being able to trust others again.”

And

“Thank you for the Honesty of Others.”

P.S. Thank you for More Money:

As a result of a number of maintenance issues, poor service standards and mix-ups during our stay at this supposed 5 star hotel, I’m delighted to share that we received a full refund of the cost of our accommodation!

“Thank you for More Money!”

P.P.S. “Thank you for Surprise Gifts!”

In addition to the above full refund of the price of our accommodation, we were ecstatic to receive a Gift Voucher in the mail for a Complimentary Night at the hotel including breakfast and car parking for a future stay.

We have since enjoyed a wonderful experience to celebrate our daughter’s 12th birthday with the quality, service, ease and luxury that you would expect from the Hilton Hotel Group.

“Thank you for Surprise Gifts!”

And

“I’m so Happy and Grateful that I now enjoy Holidaying in Luxurious Hotels!”


Jacki is the founder of Loving The Law Of Attraction and has been published alongside world class leaders such as Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy, Arielle Ford and Sandy Forster in the Inspirational Book – The Path To Success.

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Thank you for my Peace and Quiet.

Posted on August 24, 2015 by Jacki in Jacki's Blog No Comments

Every Wednesday morning after the gym I take myself to a café for lunch and write in my gratitude journal while waiting for my meal to arrive. Then after I’ve eaten, I enjoy spending the afternoon sitting with my computer and writing in the restaurant until it’s time to collect my children from school.

One particular day I was in the zone, happily writing away when two ladies sat down at the table beside me and commenced a disempowering conversation. All I could hear was them criticizing, condemning and complaining about their lives and the people in them.

I am a Deliberate Creator with the Power to decide to choose to ask for something different.

I found that I kept letting their conversation distract me from my work and tolerated, resented and suffered through their whinging for an hour until it dawned on me that I’m a Deliberate Creator who gets to decide and choose to ask for something different whenever I’ve had enough of the situation I find myself in or if other people’s energy is dragging me down.

So I knew what I didn’t want …

I didn’t want to feel like I was being held hostage in a disharmonious environment.

If I didn’t want that, then what did I want instead?

 “Thank you for my peace and quiet” was the new intention I set and this felt a lot better than the “I hate having to listen to your negativity” perspective that I’d been previously focusing on and felt trapped in.

Get clear on your intention.

Shortly after I got clear on my intention, the two “negative ladies” exited the restaurant and a solo occupant took their table.

The Universe delivered exactly what I asked for …

… the next occupant at that table was a quiet, writer type who pulled out her computer and commenced working in silence … just like me!

WOW!

“Thank you for my peace and quiet.”

Do you, like me, sometimes forget that you are the Master of Your Destiny and it’s YOU who gets to choose the circumstances, surroundings and environment that you live in?

You are the Master of Your Destiny and it’s YOU who gets to choose the circumstances, surroundings and environment that you live in.

I could have asked for change sooner, but got caught up in the drama for a bit too long until I’d finally had enough of the situation I found myself in and felt bad enough to want to choose to experience change.

When you feel bad enough, you’ll want to choose to experience change.

Are there any circumstances or situations in your life that you would like to change?

Life Change always starts with Empowered Thinking first.

Decide to transform the circumstances you’re dissatisfied with … and remember … to change your life, you need to start with Empowered Thinking first.

WHEN YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DON’T WANT, IT’S EASY TO CLARIFY WHAT YOU DO WANT …

Just look for the opposite feeling, circumstances and situations you would rather instead …

And decide to place your entire focus on your new, desired reality.


Jacki is the founder of Loving The Law Of Attraction and has been published alongside world class leaders such as Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy, Arielle Ford and Sandy Forster in the Inspirational Book – The Path To Success.

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My Journey From Personal Unhappiness To Wholeness

Posted on August 18, 2015 by Jacki in Jacki's Blog 1 Comment

My life today is a long way from where I used to be.

I would like to introduce myself. My name is Jacki Janetzki and I’m a confident woman who finds it easy to assert my needs, speak up for myself, and openly pursue what I want. I believe in myself and am comfortable and at ease with me. I am blessed with a happy, loving family life – a husband I love dearly and two beautiful daughters that I cherish. I live my life with passion, doing the work I love and loving the work I do. Inspiration and creativity come easily to me and I spend my days absorbed in writing “words with impact” – short, powerful statements of self-belief that I share with people to help them shine. I truly believe that my fulfilling life is a reflection of the self-love that I have come to know within. Life hasn’t always been this way. My life today is a long way from where I used to be.

I was desperately unhappy and didn’t know why … I felt lost, and I didn’t know how I would ever find myself again.

1999 was a year when I found myself crying a lot. I was working at a job I didn’t enjoy and the tears were flowing everywhere – at work, family dinners, even hugging my yoga teacher after class! I was desperately unhappy and didn’t know why. In hindsight, my symptoms were probably those that the “experts” of today would label as depression. I didn’t seek any advice from a doctor, so I’ll never know. One thing I’m certain of is that I felt lost, and I didn’t know how I would ever find myself again.

I lived a withdrawn life of suppressed emotion for 30 years.

My heart is full of gratitude for the direct and caring way my Yoga teacher spoke to me the day that she looked lovingly into my teary eyes and said: “You need a Light-Heart Healing Session.” This simple, seven-word, statement changed and maybe even saved my life. I’m eternally grateful that I allowed myself to be guided by faith and trust at a time when I was lacking direction and in desperate need of help. I listened to my heart that day and scheduled an appointment to participate in a form of therapy that I’d never even heard of. To this day I am extremely happy that I did!

“My dam was full” and it felt like I had cried buckets of tears by the time we were done.

Looking back now, I often tell people that “my dam was full.” The floodgates sprang open during my first Light-Heart Healing session (a form of healing similar to Holotropic Breathing and Rebirthing), and it felt like I had cried buckets of tears by the time we were done. Never before had I cried so deeply, and when the experience was over I intuitively knew that this process was transformational and I wanted to do it again. I felt an amazing sense of lightness and liberation as a result of being encouraged and allowed to openly express myself. The freedom I felt after expressing emotion was light years away from anything I had ever experienced in the past. As a baby, I was given a pacifier to stifle my crying and whenever I hurt myself in childhood, my parents directed me to quickly contain my noise and tears.

The pain of the past has a major affect on the way we live our day to day lives.

A number of incidents during my childhood involved harsh words from various “authority figures” (teachers/parents/aunts etc.) which caused me deep emotional wounding and this resulted in me becoming a fearful little girl who lacked self-confidence. I always felt trapped by my painful shyness, and because I was unaware that tools for change existed, I continued to carry this uncomfortable, introverted identity with me into adulthood. After living a withdrawn life of suppressed emotion for 30 years, I had now found a simple, effective method that gave me the freedom to let go and express the stored anger and resentment associated with events from my past.

That’s when the “I’m okay” mentality emerges and we commence pretending that “It’s all good.”

I soon came to understand that the breath is the magic key that unlocks emotion from the subconscious mind. Human beings store remnants of traumatic life experiences in our subconscious minds and then trick ourselves into believing that they’re safely locked away in a place where they can no longer hurt us. We never, ever want to be faced with these painful memories again, so we go through life thinking that we’ve either dealt with or forgotten about our issues. This is when the “I’m okay” mentality emerges and we commence pretending that “It’s all good.”

I became passionate about freeing myself from the emotional pain of my past.

I wonder what would happen if we took the time to really consider the idea that our past experiences have a major affect on the way we live our day to day lives. It’s my personal belief that the pain of the past is what drives people to indulge in the disempowering behaviours of overeating, smoking, shouting at their children, hitting their spouses, drinking excessively, taking drugs, committing suicide etc. Once I developed a true understanding of the above concept, I became passionate about freeing myself from the emotional pain of my past, and eagerly participated in Light-Heart Healing Sessions every week for the next 12 months.

I cleaned out some of the “old” to make way for the “new” and became pregnant with my first child.

Little did I know that there was a tiny “being” in heaven watching my transformation and waiting for the right time to join me on Earth. By August 1999, I had cleaned out some of the “old” to make way for the “new” and I became pregnant with my first child. The more I began to offload my emotional burdens during pregnancy, the more space I created for inspiration to flow to me. I began receiving empowering messages of self-belief and commenced writing them down. After a short time, I felt the urge to share these words of wisdom with the world and from here, I launched a regular email service to share words of self-empowerment to help YOU shine.

Offloading my emotional burdens created space for inspiration to flow to me.

As I confronted and integrated incidents in my life that had been the catalyst for my introversion, I slowly began to feel more comfortable in my own skin. I had begun to grow wings and would soon soar.

A popular saying in life is: “Shit Happens” and yet I don’t ever remember signing a contact prior to my birth stating that I would be compelled to hold onto the residue of that emotional “shit” for the rest of my life.

Releasing the subconscious programming that no longer served me helped me develop new ways of thinking about myself, and this in turn paved the way for a happier life. I can honestly say that my creativity began after I commenced de-cluttering my subconscious mind. My talents were revealed when I released my emotional baggage. Previously I believed that “I’m too shy; I can’t do it; I don’t know how; I’m not creative etc.” These are all subconscious beliefs and I felt compelled to ask myself how they got programmed into my mind. The only true answer to that question is: “I put them there.” Phew! How liberating to come to the realization that if I had stored these disempowering beliefs in my mind, then I was the one in charge of removing them. The time had come for me to focus on new thoughts of personal empowerment.

I began to feel more comfortable in my own skin… I had begun to grow wings and would soon soar. 

I am so grateful I discovered the other “Secret” to obtaining everything you want from life: “Release your hurts and reveal your love.” Do the inner work to change you, and then you’ll see your life change.

 


Jacki is the founder of Loving The Law Of Attraction and has been published alongside world class leaders such as Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy, Arielle Ford and Sandy Forster in the Inspirational Book – The Path To Success.

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