Every Wednesday morning after the gym I take myself to a café for lunch and write in my gratitude journal while waiting for my meal to arrive. Then after I’ve eaten, I enjoy spending the afternoon sitting with my computer and writing in the restaurant until it’s time to collect my children from school.
One particular day I was in the zone, happily writing away when two ladies sat down at the table beside me and commenced a disempowering conversation. All I could hear was them criticizing, condemning and complaining about their lives and the people in them.
I am a Deliberate Creator with the Power to decide to choose to ask for something different.
I found that I kept letting their conversation distract me from my work and tolerated, resented and suffered through their whinging for an hour until it dawned on me that I’m a Deliberate Creator who gets to decide and choose to ask for something different whenever I’ve had enough of the situation I find myself in or if other people’s energy is dragging me down.
So I knew what I didn’t want …
I didn’t want to feel like I was being held hostage in a disharmonious environment.
If I didn’t want that, then what did I want instead?
“Thank you for my peace and quiet” was the new intention I set and this felt a lot better than the “I hate having to listen to your negativity” perspective that I’d been previously focusing on and felt trapped in.
Get clear on your intention.
Shortly after I got clear on my intention, the two “negative ladies” exited the restaurant and a solo occupant took their table.
The Universe delivered exactly what I asked for …
… the next occupant at that table was a quiet, writer type who pulled out her computer and commenced working in silence … just like me!
“Thank you for my peace and quiet.”
Do you, like me, sometimes forget that you are the Master of Your Destiny and it’s YOU who gets to choose the circumstances, surroundings and environment that you live in?
You are the Master of Your Destiny and it’s YOU who gets to choose the circumstances, surroundings and environment that you live in.
I could have asked for change sooner, but got caught up in the drama for a bit too long until I’d finally had enough of the situation I found myself in and felt bad enough to want to choose to experience change.
When you feel bad enough, you’ll want to choose to experience change.
Are there any circumstances or situations in your life that you would like to change?
Life Change always starts with Empowered Thinking first.
Decide to transform the circumstances you’re dissatisfied with … and remember … to change your life, you need to start with Empowered Thinking first.
WHEN YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DON’T WANT, IT’S EASY TO CLARIFY WHAT YOU DO WANT …
Just look for the opposite feeling, circumstances and situations you would rather instead …
And decide to place your entire focus on your new, desired reality.
Jacki is the founder of Loving The Law Of Attraction and has been published alongside world class leaders such as Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy, Arielle Ford and Sandy Forster in the Inspirational Book – The Path To Success.